The Rough Beast: Psychoanalysis in Everyday Life Psychoanalysis in Everyday Life

The past continues to operate powerfully, wordlessly, in that less conscious part of our human mind and can trip us up unexpectedly. We can perceive and respond to situations in ways which are more to do with early experiences than the present. We can push from mind what we would rather not know. Feelings such as doubt and sadness can seem too weak; envy and anger, too bad; feeling small and in any way in need, could leave us too vulnerable. Though most will never have their own experience of psychoanalysis (or less intensive psychoanalytic psychotherapy), psychoanalytic ideas can be profoundly helpful in making sense of ourselves. Having some access to those more hidden parts of our human mind, we can feel more alive, more real and less likely to act out in unexpected ways. An accessible, sympathetic and challenging guide, The Rough Beast: Psychoanalysis in Everyday Life is for all those who are curious and sceptical as to what, why and how psychoanalytic understanding is useful in everyday life.

Acknowledgements Prologue 1) Introduction: What is psychoanalysis? 2) Fundamental Freud; 3) How does psychoanalysis work? 4) The downside of change Part I Analyticunderstanding of early life 5) The baby 6) The mother and the environment Part II Freedom of thought 7) The mad 8) The bad 9) The sad 10) The good and the sane Part III Conflict through the life stages11) The young child and Oedipus 12) The child: Resolving or evading Oedipus 13) Early adolescence and the changing body 14) Late adolescence Part IV Adulthood 15) Love 16) Parenting 17) Workand play 18) Mid-life19) Old age 20) Conclusion Appendices References Index

Denise Cullington is a psychoanalyst in private practice in Oxford, UK. She trained at the Institute of Psychoanalysis, the Tavistock Clinic, London and as a clinical psychologist. Prior to that she lived and painted in the US and in Puerto Rico. Her book Breaking Up Blues (2008, Routledge) brought analytic thinking to the task of managing break-up and divorce.