Foreword, Jackson Katz Introduction, Shira Tarrant Part I: Masculinity and Identity Introduction 1 Daytona Beach: Beyond Beats and Rhymes, Byron Hurt 2 The Enemy Within: On Becoming a Straight White Guy, Jacob Anderson-Minshall 3 The Bullying Demands of Masculinity: A Genderqueer Escape, River Willow Fagan 4 Redefining Manhood: Resisting Sexism, Ewuare X. Osayande 5 Stepping Out of Bounds, Nathan Einschlag 6 Grooming Masculinity: Cleans Your Balls, Yes But What Else Does It Do?, Michael J. Murphy 7 Searching for the Colorful Faces of Muslim Men, Amanullah De Sondy 8 Hombres y Machos, Alfredo Mirandé Part II: The Politics of Sex and Love Introduction 9 Just a John? Pornography and Men’s Choices, Robert Jensen 10 Male and Queer in the Porn Industry, Ned Mayhem 11 Bye-Bye Bi? Bailey, Biphobia, and Girlie-Men, Marcus C. Tye 12 Darker Shades of Queer: Race and Sexuality at the Margins, C. Winter Han 13 Let Us Be Seen, Tomek Kitlinski and Pawel Leszkowicz 14 The Real Slim Shady, Ryan Heryford Part III: Dealing With Violence and Abuse Introduction 15 How We Enter, B. Loewe 16 An Abused State of Mind, Anonymous 17 Prison Breakthrough, A. Razor 18 Men’s Manifesto, Ben Atherton-Zeman 19 Violation, Eli Hastings 20 Breaking the Silence One Mile at a Time, Grantlin Schafer 21 Being a Social Justice Ally: A Feminist’s Perspective on Preventing Male Violence, Jonathan Ravarino Part IV: Masculinity at Work and Home Introduction 22 Rebuilding Houses and Rethinking Gender:Construction Volunteer Work in Post-Katrina New Orleans, Ian Breckenridge-Jackson 23 Exposed in Iraq: Sexual Harassment and Hidden Rank Structure of the US Army, Marshall Thompson 24 Gender in Jakarta: Lessons on Discourse and Disparity, Bryan Talbot Morris 25 Listening, Learning, Speaking Up, Daniel Simon 26 A Tribute to My Father, Chris Dixon 27 Playground Vertigo, Jeremy Adam Smith 28 Judging Fathers: The Case for Gender-Neutral Standards, Donald N.S. Unger 29 What’s Wrong With Fathers’ Rights?, Michael Flood Part V: Men and Feminism Introduction 30 It’s Just Common Sense, Brandon Arber 31 Why I Am Not a Feminist, Haji Shearer 32 The Starbucks Intervention, Greg Bortnichak 33 From Oppressor to Activist: Reflections of a Feminist Journey, Amit Taneja 34 Abandoning the Barricades: or How I Became a Feminist, Michael S. Kimmel 35 Confessions of a Premature Pro-Feminist, Rob Okun Part VI: Taking Action, Making Change Introduction 36 Men for Women’s Choice 37 Living Online, Jeff Pollet 38 Steel-Toed Boots, Tal Peretz 39 Good Ol’ Boy: A Tale of Transformation in the Rural South, Jay Poole 40 Breaking Down The Bro Code, Thomas Keith 41 How Can I Be Sexist? I’m an Anarchist!, Chris Crass